5 Wedding Planning Tips for the Halfway Mark
From Your Ottawa Wedding Photographer’s Perspective
You’ve made it to the halfway point — six months out from your wedding day! Whether you’ve had your Pinterest board locked down for years or just started finalizing details, this is a sweet spot in your planning journey. You’ve booked your venue, hired your key vendors (hopefully including your photographer 😉), and now it’s time to start thinking about how everything will flow together on the big day.
As an Ottawa wedding photographer who's captured dozens of weddings across the city and beyond, here are five key tips I recommend focusing on now to help your day run smoothly and feel unforgettable — in all the best ways.
1. Finalize Your Ceremony and Portrait Times
At six months out, it’s a great time to nail down your ceremony start time and begin thinking about the flow of the day—especially when it comes to lighting.
From a photography perspective, golden hour (the hour before sunset) offers the best lighting for your couple portraits. If you’re planning an outdoor ceremony or want sunset photos, it’s worth talking with your photographer now to build a timeline that works with the sun rather than against it.
If you’re unsure how to make this work for your venue or season, reach out. I’m always happy to help map out ideal lighting windows for your location. You can also browse real weddings in my wedding photography portfolio to see examples of different lighting styles.
2. Decide Whether You Want to Do a First Look
First looks are one of the most impactful choices couples can make when planning their photo timeline. If you’re unfamiliar, a first look is a private moment where the couple sees each other before the ceremony.
Doing a first look can:
Give you more time for portraits earlier in the day
Allow you to attend more of your cocktail hour
Offer a quiet, emotional moment together before the schedule picks up
If you’re leaning toward a traditional aisle reveal, that’s absolutely fine too. Just make sure your timeline accounts for enough time for portraits and family photos between the ceremony and reception.
Still deciding? My Wedding Photography Journey guide offers more insight into what might work best for your day.
3. Start Building Your Family Photo List
It may seem early, but beginning your family photo list now will save you stress later on. Think through any must-have groupings, chat with family members about what’s important to them, and keep in mind any unique family dynamics you want me to be aware of.
When the full questionnaire goes out about six weeks before your wedding, you’ll be able to finalize the list. But having a working draft now gives you time to gather input and avoid any last-minute decisions.
If you’re not sure where to start, I’ll provide a sample list closer to the day—and we’ll customize it to suit your family setup and preferences.
4. Confirm Remaining Vendors and Details
The halfway point is a great time to check in with any vendors you haven’t booked yet. Make sure you have these areas covered:
Hair and makeup
Florals
Rentals and decor
Videography (if you’re including it)
Transportation or shuttles
If you still have gaps in your vendor list, feel free to reach out. I’ve worked with many talented Ottawa wedding vendors, and I’m happy to recommend trusted professionals who align with your vision and style.
5. Plan a Quiet Moment Just for the Two of You
This is one of those details that can get lost in the shuffle, but I promise it’s worth it.
Whether it’s a few minutes together after your ceremony, a private vow exchange before guests arrive, or a brief moment during dinner to step away, planning intentional time for just the two of you creates a chance to take it all in.
These moments often become some of the most emotionally powerful photos of the day—and more importantly, they help you stay connected amid the excitement.
Bonus: Haven’t Booked Your Engagement Session Yet?
If your photography package includes an engagement session and you haven’t scheduled it yet, now is the perfect time. Spring, summer, and fall dates in Ottawa tend to book quickly, especially on weekends.
Some of my favourite engagement session locations in Ottawa include:
The Ornamental Gardens at the Central Experimental Farm
Watson’s Mill in Manotick
Major’s Hill Park and the downtown core near the Château Laurier
You can learn more or get ideas by visiting my Engagement Sessions page.
If your session isn’t included or you’d like to add one, just get in touch. Engagement sessions are a great way to get comfortable in front of the camera and enjoy a fun, relaxed evening together.
Final Thoughts from Your Ottawa Wedding Photographer
At six months out, your wedding day is close enough to feel real but far enough away that you still have time to shape the experience into exactly what you want. Use this milestone to take a breath, check in with your plans, and focus on the moments that matter most.
As your photographer, I’m here to guide you through it all. If you ever need help, advice, or recommendations as your day gets closer, don’t hesitate to reach out.
You’ve got this—and I can’t wait to help capture it.